Since I was a little girl, I usually thought that being a boy was more interesting and challenging. Boys could do everything they wanna do. They could climb up trees, they could make some noises without being complained, and when they did mess, the adults just said, "No problem, they are just little boys. They must be active. No problem."
But, the adults always said, "Good girls don't do this... Good girls don't do that...". There's too many things good girls didn't do.
I always thought, why girls could not be as strong as boys. Why everyone treated girls as different type of beings? Girls were not allowed to do things boys can do. Why? Why couldn't girls climb up trees? Ya, I was not a type of girls that like to do such things, but I always assumed that the differentiation between girls and boys is just a way to make girls much weaker.
As I grown up, I still thought that being boys is better. Boys can try to reach their dreams till the very end while girls cannot. Why? You think that everyone can, right? Ya, that's right. But, can you imagine when girls are in the middle of two choices, their dreams or their hearts... As girls, I believe that we have desires to be the best, to be famous, to be rich, and to be everything we wanna be. But, I bet that we also have desires to build happy life with a good husband, some cute children, beautiful house, and a lot of smiles and laugh everyday. So, when girls are in the middle of these choices, they meet their biggest barrier.
So, to get one, girls must give up one thing.
Being girls is more stressful, right????
Whatever happens, I am very proud to be a girl in this world...
U're the best I've ever had
~FeN~
As I grown up, I still thought that being boys is better. Boys can try to reach their dreams till the very end while girls cannot. Why? You think that everyone can, right? Ya, that's right. But, can you imagine when girls are in the middle of two choices, their dreams or their hearts... As girls, I believe that we have desires to be the best, to be famous, to be rich, and to be everything we wanna be. But, I bet that we also have desires to build happy life with a good husband, some cute children, beautiful house, and a lot of smiles and laugh everyday. So, when girls are in the middle of these choices, they meet their biggest barrier.
So, to get one, girls must give up one thing.
Being girls is more stressful, right????
Whatever happens, I am very proud to be a girl in this world...
U're the best I've ever had
~FeN~
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2 thoughts:
At the moment of that "biggest barrier" of choices occurs in your life, which one will you choose fen? :-)
Can not decide now I think...
Let see which one will win...
^^
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