Friday, October 15, 2010

A day in the future

Just now, I remembered watching a clip during one of my first year Effective Communication lessons. The clip showed a couple who were in a row. Both of them had great careers, and the girl was just promoted to a higher position. However, she should move to another city if she accepted the offer. The girl wanted to move and go on  the long distance relationship, but the guy didn't agree. He was pissed off since he thought he could give a good life for them by doing his job, but the girl just wanted another leap to her career.

When I watched the clip, not any further thought came into my mind. I just did some questions I need to answer based on the situation: what communication problem they were facing? what solution was the best for them? and some more analysis questions.

But today, suddenly I thought: would I face this kind of problem in my relationship?

Yes, now I wanted to move and continue my study. Both bf and I have agreed that we will put a very hard effort on our relationship if I decide to go overseas, but how about our long term plan? I don't know.

What I know now, I will come back to him, sooner or later.
What I know now, he will fight for the future with me, and so will I
What I know now, we will find our way to be together and have a huge happiness

So, Father God, please lead us to the right path. Thank You very much. I love You, Father.

U're the best I've ever had

2 thoughts:

Herry -- HgS said...

And the case study become true. Well, just curious how did you answer the question last time?

~'FeN'~ said...

I don't want the row to happen. I just want the best solution. Actually, I didn't remember what my answer was last time. But if this ever happen in my life, I will re-answer the question, by wisdom.